O.K., to get back to your basic, happy self, you have to let go of the negative feelings surrounding your ex. This isn't easy, as your sub-conscious mind is always ready to flood your brain with painful comparisons between the past and the present.
Unfortunately, once a woman has decided she can get a Bigger and Better Deal (BBD) elsewhere...you're history and no amount of trying to convince her to stay or come back will be of any help. Women obviously have a much easier time finding another relationship....(supply and demand) The trick is to disassociate from her perceived rejection. Fancy words for saying: It's only HER opinion that you have no value as a partner. We ALL know women can, and DO change their "feelings" towards you at the drop of a hat. As a matter of fact most women THEMSELVES can't explain their feelings, or sudden lack thereof... :-/
If you are interested in the how and why of female attraction, I highly recommend David DeAngelo: http://www.doubleyourdating.com/. His basic premise is that "Attraction is NOT a Choice for Women" ....but I digress....more on MOVING FORWARD and forgeting your ex, next post!
Be a Warrior!
Greg
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